Take Responsiblity Of Your Mistakes

If you are a responsible person then its your responsibility to accept your mistakes . Many people face problems in life by committing some mistakes . Successful person and responsible person will always accept his mistakes. In front of people there comes only three options for the mistake done by them .
1. He can avoid it .
2. He refuse to accept that he has committed any mistake .
3. He accepts it and never repeat it again.

Accepting the third option needs some courage . Only successful and responsible person accepts the mistake with patience . When situation goes out of hands negative people always has the sayings that it is done by that person and generally they blame each other .

Once President of a company was going to get retire . He was rich , famous , successful and had fulfilled his all money making opportunities. He presented two envelopes to the new president and said if you indulge in any crisis and you find no way to solve it , then for the first crisis open first envelope and for second crisis open second envelope .

After a few years a big crisis came in front of the new president , he remembered that now was the time to open the first envelope . In first envelope it was written that put all the blame to the old president . He exactly did that . After a few years again a big crisis came in front of him and he thought of opening the second envelope . He opened it and in it was written that it is perfect time for you to prepare same two envelope for the new president .

What was the moral of the story ?...

The moral was that we are never ready to accept our mistakes and we blame it to others .

How do we define SUCCESS ?

If you really want to get success , then make a habit of doing those things which unsuccessful people do not want to do .

A lot of research is been done between success and failure . The secret to success can be determined by reading the biography of the successful person . Those who are successful people they all have some similar qualities , because success always leave its mark behind . If we analyse the qualities of a successful people and apply in our own life , we will surely be successful someday. Likewise , unsuccessful people also have some common qualities which we can neglect from our life .

Success is nothing but continuous application of some standard values in your life.
Similarly not achieving success is just the continuous repetition of some mistakes of the past.
Some good writer truly said, "Achieving value based target is success" .

Its just the subjective feeling which comes from inside. Success is not earning quick , easy , free money but it is just to reach highest point and to earn respect from each individual.

To successful people there is one beautiful saying which goes like this : " Successful people don't do different things , they do things differently " .......

You're success lies within you

Many people lose their hope of becoming successful because they think that they won't find it.
But truth is they have every ingredient inside them to become successful.
Success is what lies beneath you , not how you look or what you are.......
Many people lose their hope because they have their personal problems that people like women's , children , black , physical disabled people don't deserve to be successful.

I would like to tell you a story of a poor man , who lived in a village , earned his living by selling helium filled balloons. He daily came to city to sell his balloons for his living.

When he saw that his balloons sale was getting low , he threw one of the balloons in air . Because of helium inside the balloon went up . Seeing this children got attracted towards it and they purchased his balloons. Whenever this thing happened , he just let away one balloon in the sky. One day when he did this thing , a boy came to him and asked , " Is the samething will happen if you threw black balloon in the air ". Seeing the little boy innocence , he gave him the black balloon and told him that ..... It is not the color , structure , physical appearance that is responsible for the fly away of balloon , it is what is inside (helium gas) that makes it fly high.

What was the moral of the story ?.
The moral of the story is , : everything is inside us which will make us rise high . So believe me success and failure all depends what you think , do , apply etc.........

Self-Esteem May Help You In Getting Success

Self-Esteem is a powerful thought which comes from internal . It is generate within the mind of people , in fact suddenly. Try to build your self-esteem to high. Thinking positive to even worst situation is one way to do it .

Once near a station platform there was a beggar sitting idle, selling pencil. He had cup full of pencil . A young men passing by him gave him a few rupees and started waiting for the train . As soon as the train was about to come , he looked at the beggar's pencils. He went to him ,took few pencils and said ,"I think you are not beggar , but you are a business men . So as I am a business men I am making a business transaction with you , taking few pencil for the rupees ."

After six months , that young men went to a party where he met the beggar . The beggar was completely changed, he was wearing tie, suit , shoes etc. The beggar went to him and told him that ," Sir , you don't remember me , but I remember you. You're the one who changed my life. That day you treated me as a business men , not as a beggar. That thing made me think that what I am doing this. So from that moment I started doing something good than before and see today I am here. Thanks very much for invoking my self-esteem ."

So the change in the beggar life was that his self-esteem was raised high , he started believing that he was not born to do that. Henry David Thoro once said ,"Whatever a man thinks about himself not only decides his destiny but also gets signals about his future. "

A Crash Course For Getting Success .

Hello friends , hope you have enjoyed my blog. Today I have brought for you a quick , easy way for getting to success . These sayings are given by my idol "Shiv Kheda". His teachings have inspired me a lot . So today I am presenting his few steps which are as crash course for huge success , huge money and getting to rich .
It goes like this :

1. Always play to win , never lose hope of winning anytime .

2. Try to learn from others mistakes .

3. Try to get in a company of good and quiet natured people .

4. Whatever you get, always give more .

5. Don't expect of getting without giving anything.

6. Always try to think of future, don't just let your present be good.

7. Try to analyse your strong points and be confident on it.

8. When you take decision , always see the picture of the consequences.Because decision are not wrong , their results are wrong .

9. Never compromise with the truth.

10. Try to forgive others for little mistakes , as you are not god.

Spoken Words Cannot Be Retrived

When you spoke , spoke it carefully . Many people make it a habit of criticizing others. They will always point to the negative aspect of even a good thing. If someone is rich and earning a huge money , people will always try to criticize him for even his good efforts. The negative thinking people will always want that they should get rich before you .

Once upon a time there lived a farmer , he had bad nature of criticizing other farmer on their success in agriculture. One day he realized that he was wrong . He went to church for confession. He told to father about his mistake. Father told him that , "get a bag full of feathers and throw each feather on the roadside". He did the same . As soon as he returned, father told him to get back all the feathers. He went to roadside for the collection . As he reached there he found that there was no feather . All the feathers were blown away by the air.

He returned to father with the empty bag . Seeing this father told him that , "words we spoke are same as feathers , if we spoke it we cannot take it back ". The farmer got the lesson that whatever we spoke , we should always spoke good for the other .

Life Is Just Like An Echo ?.....

Life is just like an echo. Once a small child of nearly 5 year old was sad with his mother and shouted on her that, " I hate you" , "I hate you" . After that he ran away to a lonely place , he sat near a valley and shouted thinking of his mother that , " I hate you " , " I hate you " . As soon as he shouted , his voice echoed all over the valley and came back to him as ,"I hate you" , "I hate you" . First time in his life he heard that echo , and it made him afraid . For his security he ran back to his mother and said , "Near the valley there is a bad boy who shouts , I hate you , I hate you" .

Listening to this she told him that just go to the valley and shout , "I Love you " , "I Love you" . The little boy went to the big valley and shouted, "I love you " , "I love you " . His voice echoed all over the valley and came back to him as , "I love you " , "I love you" . Listening to it the boy was happy and learnt a very basic lesson from the event that :

Our life is just like an echo , we get back what we give . That is like a famous saying : " What's goes around , comes around "

So friends to have good personality you must have the quality of giving help . Success merely depends on what you give to others not on removing your competitors from life .

How They Catch Monkeys In India ?

Monkey catchers have a very nice trick to catch a monkey in India . They make a small box which has a small hole at the top. The box is filled by nuts . The hole is so small that only monkey can easily put his hand to it. When monkey put his hand in to the box it gets in it very easily. But as soon as he grasps the nuts in his hands, the hands get wide and doesn't come out of the box. The Monkey tries to get his hand out of the box but fails . He therefore get caught in the box . He has two choices either to open his hands , leave the nuts and get free or get caught in the box and lose the freedom forever.

We human beings are not different from those monkeys . We also grasps the obstacle which stop us from reaching to the top. After failing to do a job or some work from our mistakes we then make excuses that "I couldn't do that work because .........." and after because whatever the words come all are the obstacle and troubles which not even take our freedom , but also make us helpless. Everything after this is generally looks losted and we get caught by the hands of failure . Improving personality and earning easy money is good but problem is that 'because....' which never ends .

Selfishness And Greed Never End ....?

Selfishness and greedy people have no right to survive in this world . They always want more . Some wish can be fulfilled but not the greed .

Once greedy farmer was given a offer that you would get that much land which you cover on your feet in just one day and condition was that he had to get to same place before the day ended . Farmer was excited , he ran as soon as the day began . He wanted more and more land so he ran whole of the evening . He does not wanted to loose the golden opportunity he got .

As day passed he realised that he had to get back to starting point before the sun rise. So he turned back to the starting point . Because of his greed he was quiet far away from the starting point . He ran very fast to get to starting point quickly. He was very much tired of the running and was not able to breathe properly. He then to ran very fast because there was no much time left in sun rise. Finally he reached to starting point in time but because of his fast running he lost his life .

Then he was been buried in the earth and only that much land he got for his greed. Getting to quick , easy , free success and money can be possible but to have that in huge quantity and to greed for more can be disastrous.

The Easier Way May Be The Tougher .

One day Lark was sitting in her nest and singing a song . One farmer passed by her and having a box full of insects . Lark asked him what's in your box and where are you going ?. Farmer answered that box had insects and he is going to buy feathers for those insects . Lark replied me too also have the feathers , why don't you provide me with insects and I provide you with the feathers , as I don't have to go far to catch the insects . Lark everyday gave him one feather for handful of the insects . When Lark was left with no feather , she was unable to get insects from the farmer and due to no feathers she was not in a state to even search for the insects. Soon she looked ugly , left singing and died because of no food .

This is also true with our life also . Many a times in trying to get quick , fast and easy money as well as success we sometimes choose the wrong way . In above story Lark got easy way to get insects which proved costly to her .

Suppose we want to cut grass in our garden . There are generally two ways of doing that , one is to cut the grass with the help of machine . Machine can cut grass in fast and easy way but after some time grass again grows . The other way is some what difficult that is to remove grass completely from the soil , that is remove by picking up the root . This method though hard and difficult but would permanentely remove the grass from the soil.

How Is Life Full Of Compromises ?....

Life is not meant to enjoy . Its also has some taste of sad and unhappiness . Sudden incident happens in life of which we have not even thought of . Even good people face some bad incident in life . Being a handicapped or having a birth disease are out of our hand , we cannot shout to god . But we can compromise it with the fact that all the bad things god has given me early and now its time that he will give me something good .

So life is full of compromises , its up to us what we choose and how we see the condition . We have change our self according to the situation imposed on us .

Richard Blechnyden wanted to promote Indian Tea in St.Louis festival . It was quiet hot. Many of didn't like the hot tea in that season. He saw that cold drinks liked by many peoples . Idea came into his mind that why not I should sell cold tea with some sugar .From that moment Iced tea came into existence and it became world famous .

If some thing unusual happens then we have to compromise with the bad things and make a good way out of it. We have lemon , so its on us that either we can drink lemon water or we can put in our eyes and shout ........

Winners Versus Losers .

This morning when I was reading a book , I came to one of the good article around me . The book is named as "You can win" written by a professional "Shiv Kheda" . His book had this article called "Winners Versus Losers" . I am presenting this to you as in my own words , what generally I basically understood , the 'Vs' goes like this :

1. Winner is always part of the solution . But loser is always part of problem .
2. Winner always has some new programme to do . But loser always have some new excuse.
3. Winner always says "I will do it for you" . Loser always says "This is not my job".
4. Winner always says "Despite of difficulties this work can be done" . loser always says that "This work can be done but it is difficult".
5. Winner on his mistakes says "Its my fault" . Loser on his mistakes would say "Its not my fault" .
6. Winner always do what he promises . Loser have attitude that promises are meant to be broken .
7. Winner always says "I must do something". Loser always says "some thing should happen on its own" .
8. Winner is always part of the team . Loser tries to make parts in team .
9. Winner looks for the good . Loser looks for the problems .
10. Winner nature is like a Thermostat . Loser nature is like a Thermometer.
11. Winner always thinks and then speak . Loser always speaks and then thinks .
12. Winner always end their works . Loser always wait for work to be end .

Try to have nature like a Winner not like a Loser . Apply these rules in your life and personality. You will be at top in no time .

How Life Is Full Of Choices ?....

When we eat more food , then we choose an option of being overweight. When we drink more alcohol , then we choose an option of getting headache next day.If we drive a car drinking alcohol , then we choose an option to hurt our self or to others . When we behave in a rude and in a bad way towards others then there is an option that they will also behave with us in the same way. When we don't care about anybody then we make a choice that same thing will Happy to us. They will also stop caring about us.

Every choice we make have some consequences . We are free to take any choice in our life , but after that , choice controls us . We are independent to take any decisions but after that decisions controls us.

We eat more food that is our decision , but then that decision controls over body to get to overweight. We drink alcohol that is our independent choice , but that choice controls that you will definitely get headache the next morning.

Similarly is the case with the choice of earning free fast easy money , but after that money controls how happily we live our life. So make your personality such that your choice or decision must be getting success and not to indulge in any other rubbish activities.

The Greatest Gift

From the world's total beings , human beings is really weak in his physical behaviour. Man cannot fly high like a bird , he cannot run fast like a leopard , he generally cannot swim like a crocodile and he cannot climb up the tree like a monkey. Man eyes are not sharp as eagle, not his paws and nails are like a wild cat. He is weak and helpless in his physical appearance. Even a small bite of an insect can kill him.

But nature is quiet intelligent and pity . She has given us a biggest gift which is to think. Man can make his own environment but animals have to change their behaviour according to the environment.

Sad thing is that we never use it to the full strength , only a few people use it to full strength.

Life is just like a cafeteria in which we have to do self service. We pick our tray , we choose our food and we pay for it . If we have a lot of money than we can buy anything from the cafe.
But if we sit on table and wait for some one to come and serve us . Than believe me , no one would come and serve you , you will keep on waiting whole day.

Life is also a big cafeteria , where tray is your help (studies , work , business etc) . You decide the food (higher studies or lower studies). You pay for it (Struggle) , to receive anything in your life .

Every Success Story Is Also A Story Of Great Failure.

Failure is a highway to success . If you read history , you will find that every success story is also a story of a great failure. But people don't look at the failure, they look for the result. They generally think what a luck that person must have got , being at right place and at the right time.

A story of man is quiet famous . In age of 21 he was unsuccessful in his business. In age of 22 he lost a election. In age of 24 he again saw a loss in his business. In age 26 his wife died . In age 27 he lost nervous breakdown . In age of 34 he again lost one election . In age of 45 , he lost senate election. In age of 47 he failed to become deputy president . In 49 he again lost senate election . In age 52 he became the powerful man on this earth i.e. he became president of America . His name Abraham Lincoln.

What would you think of that man , surely mad . But believe me his madness is surely a good example to make you mad like him.

Struggle

History tells us that those who are successful in their life, have faced a lot of obstacles in their life which are demotivating and full of frustation . They are successful because they never got upset in their defeats and struggled for more.



Once there was a professor of Biology who taught there students that how caterpillar converts to butterfly. He told them not to help the caterpillar in coming out the cover. After saying this he went out of the laboratory. Students kept on waiting for the butterfly to come out of the cover. She was struggling to get out of the cover , seeing this students felt pity on the butterfly and tried to help the butterfly to come out of the cover. Doing this , made butterfly to come out of the cover without any problems . But as soon as she came out of the cover , she died .



When the professor returned he heard all the situations from their students and told them that the struggle that butterfly would have faced in coming out of the cover would have provided strength to her body and to her wings , but your help made her lost her life. You have not allowed her , to face the obstacles .

Same thing applies to the life , if you want to achieve something than you have to struggle for it .

Getting help from others would never make you strong from inside , only it will make you some easy in your life.

Some Obstacles To Success

Everybody out there want to become successful in their life. They also want to reach to the highest point in the life, they also want to become rich , earn money , they also want grasp all the money making opportunities . Some get it all but many of them fail. They fail because of obstacles coming to there way , either real or imagined.

Some of the obstacles are as :
1. Ego.
2. Fear of failure.
3. lack of confidence.
4. No plan .
5. Lack of formalised goals.
6. Life changes.
7. Procrastination. (delay to work)
8. Family responsibilities.
9. Financial security issues.
10. Lack of focus , being muddled.
11. Giving up vision for promise of money.
12. Doing too much alone.
13. Overcommitment.
14. Lack of commitment.
15. Lack of training.
16. Lack of persistence.
17. Lack of priorities.

Remove these obstacles from your life and you will definitely will grow in your personality and you will definitely will achieve success in your life.

Start Your Day With Something Positive

When you wake up in the morning , you pray for some good things to happen for you , but in true reality your day might go bad or might go as you wish . For the people who go to work pray that they should earn more money which they have earned a day before . Some pray to achieve success in their life in a fast speed. Some pray for happy life. Some of them even pray that all their friends and girlfriend should not fight to them again . But do you think praying works ? I do.

We should always start our day with something positive. To begin we should always see , hear or read something good . Say if you read newspaper , always read the part of sports , because reading about somebody victory would definitely have positive impact on your thoughts and if its your own country than it is just big bonus.

If we have a nice sleep overnight , than our mind is free from tension and at early morning it will definitely feed up the positive things you read or see or do. Due to this whole day there is good flow of the positive thought . Kindly do this for a few day and believe me you will not only make it a habit but it will also boost up your confidence immensely . If you follow these basic steps you would definitely will become a winner .

William James of Harvard University said , "If you really want to change your lifestyle then the best way is to do it right now ". So why are you reading ?...... (shout) ....... just go and follow that's it ...... he..he..he...

Learn To Like The Things That Need To Be Done

People have the bad quality to put their work on the others , they try to get as many of their work from the others .

Doing such activities in their life they generally lose the confidence which they require when they face the real world around them . They become mentally disable when they face some big problem in their life. Thus they develop the fear inside that they are not capable to tackle the obstacle in their life . They become lazy , dull in their daily routine also.

One of the great writer said, "To develop confidence in you , start from the work which is necessary for you and then to get to that work which you can think you can do and finally you will see that you are able to do that thing also which once you believed that is impossible for you to do ".

This principle is same as giving a yearly exam , you first solve the questions which is easy and which is easily solved by you , then you proceed to that questions which you feel that you can do by applying small logic or technique, and finally as you proceed you develop some confidence which enable you to even solve the difficult problem of your paper.

That's how even life works. So kindly if want to achieve success , money , power then from right now whatsoever task is given to you , try to do and don't neglect it till the end .

Stay Away From Negative Influences

Once an Eagle's egg somehow went in the nest of chicken . In that nest it got mix up with the eggs of the chicken . When the right time of the hatch came , the small eagle came out of the egg . He grew up thinking that he is a chicken . He only did what the chicken did . He searched for the rice , wheat etc what the chicken did . He produced the sound which the chicken produced . He kept flying only to few feet because the chicken also flew that much.

One day he saw an Big Eagle flying high up in the sky . He asked the old chicken , "What is the name of that beautiful bird ? ". Chicken replied , "That's an Eagle . She is one of the most fast , beautiful and splendid bird . But you can not fly high like her because you are a chicken " .
That baby Eagle unknowingly believed that he is chicken and lived the life of chicken , and died also like a chicken.

What was the moral of the story ?....
The moral of the story was that a bad , negative company will always destroy you.
You are born to win like an eagle but when you come to negative influences you live life of a chicken and die without achieving your goal to fly high . If we want to achieve success and say easy money we have to live the life of eagle and will have to learn the tactics of eagle not the chicken. But doing this is not easy , we will have to face negative sayings and obstacle in life.... Make your personality like an eagle and believe that you're born to win and not to lose , in any bad situation you face .......